cumulative giving and planned giving marketing & recognition

We are a nonprofit presenting performing arts center.  I would appreciate responses on one or both topics:

1.  For cumulative giving totals for naming opportunities and other benefits, what do you include in a patron's total?  For example: do you include only gifts to the endowment and capital campaigns for construction?  Or do you also include annual funding gifts (Memberships, sponsorships, etc.)  in a patron's cumulative total on giving?  

2.  As development director on a small staff, I am responsible for all aspects of fundraising.  We may  enlist the services of a company that specializes in planned giving marketing - to help us develop digital and print content.  We would like for this same company to have the expertise to advise us on planned giving strategy.  This is not for a campaign - but for our ongoing program.  Can you please give me suggestions based on your experience?

Thank you!

Debbie