Inactive Relationships Pulling Into Lists

Hey guys!

I'm running into an issue where Inactive relationship types are being pulled into lists automatically, whether I'm using advanced relationships or not (and unchecking Include Inactive). If I use the Relationship Inactive criteria and set it to No, it's still giving me more people than I need as it's looking at ANY active relationship for that constituent. If I set that to Yes, it's giving me less people than I need as it's looking for any inactive relationship (some board members leave and come back). We just recently converted to Tessitura so I'm wondering if there's a setting somewhere that needs to be updated or if there's a better way to be drilling down on these people. I understand that we could use start and end dates, but we don't have information for a lot of our relationships and I don't want to put in inaccurate data for the sake of pulling these lists. Any guidance is appreciated - thanks!!

-Courtney